Expiring, Eternal or Simply Monstrous? Identity of Bereaved Mothers: A Preliminary Insight

Magdalena Rosochacka-Gmitrzak

doi:10.18290/rns2024.0027

Data publikacji : 2024-06-28

Tom 52 Nr 2 (2024)

Wygasająca, wieczna czy potworna? Tożsamość matek w żałobie. Wstępne obserwacje

Magdalena Rosochacka-Gmitrzak

https://orcid.org/0000-0003-2367-9426

DOI: https://doi.org/10.18290/rns2024.0027

Abstrakt

Celem artykułu jest zbadanie procesu zmian w tożsamości matek po stracie dziecka. Socjologicznej analizie zostaje poddane pojęcie tożsamości, w tym tożsamości matki. Przedstawiono historyczne i statystyczne tło przypadków utraty dziecka w wyniku jego śmierci. Artykuł podejmuje próbę wyjścia poza dotychczasowy stan wiedzy i opisów tożsamości matki w żałobie, proponując jeszcze inne spojrzenie, które wydaje się celowe dla dalszych zamierzonych badań, a mianowicie tożsamość, którą można określić mianem potwornej. Z metodologicznego punktu widzenia artykuł ma charakter przeglądu integracyjnego z elementami wstępnych obserwacji.

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matki w żałobie, zmiana tożsamości, tożsamość potworna, śmierć i strata dziecka

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